性功能障碍的治疗-性治疗

“传统的”性功能障碍 - 女性性功能障碍的治疗

无性高潮 - 可能的病因

一般文化原因
在西方工业化社会里，女性在她们早期的生活中会习得负面的性态度。我们常常观察到我们的文化并不鼓励女孩开发她们的性需要，不鼓励她们自豪于自己是有性的人(sexual beings)，让她们感到自己没有资格从事性活动。正相反，从她们最早的孩童期，我们的文化教导女孩子要“正派”、“虔诚”、“端庄”和“高尚”；要求她们要控制、掩藏或克制自己的性欲望，而且劝阻她们主动暴露自己的身体。我们的文化可能允许女孩子耽溺于某种暧昧而浪漫的性幻想，但要防止有任何实际的性体验。事实上，我们的文化认为寻求这种体验的女孩是像畜牲一样的道德品质低下和卑劣的人。同时，文化也告诫女孩要堤防那些“只想着一件事”和把女性作为性工具对待和辱虐的男人，因为他们是卑劣者和满足本能需要的禽兽。文化绝对不认可女性也许有相同的性本能或也许也能够把男性作为性工具。这种负面性态度训练的结果，是让许多女性养成了不切实际的和非常压抑的性价值观。她们觉得要有性行为则需要得到某种特别的许可，并且只有在非同寻常的、几乎完美的情形下才能够获得这种许可。不幸的是，女性在现实生活中决不会找到这些完美的情形，所以她们可能从未轻松过，从未放松自己以完满地享受性能力的乐趣。

The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions - Sex Therapy

The “Classic” Dysfunctions - The Treatment of Female Sexual Dysfunctions

Absence of Orgasm - Possible Causes

General Cultural Causes
Women in our Western industrialized societies learn to adopt negative sexual attitudes early in their lives. It has often been observed that our culture does not encourage girls to develop sexual needs, to be proud of themselves as sexual beings, and to feel entitled to sexual activity. On the contrary, from their earliest childhood, girls are taught to be "nice," "good," "decent," "proper," and "respectable". They are asked to control, hide, or deny their sexual urges and are discouraged from actively exploring their bodies. They may be allowed to entertain some vague romantic fantasies, but are prevented from having any practical sexual experiences. In fact, they are told that girls who seek such experiences are worthless, despicable creatures. At the same time, they are warned against the base and animalistic instincts of men who are "all after only one thing" and who use and abuse women as sexual objects. It is never admitted that women might have the same instincts or might be able to reciprocate. As a result of this negative conditioning, many women develop unrealistic and very restrictive sexual values. They feel that they need some special permission to be sexual, and that they can grant themselves this permission only under very unusual, almost ideal circumstances. Unfortunately, these ideal circumstances may never be found in real life, and thus the women may never become relaxed enough to enjoy their sexual capacities to the fullest.