性功能障碍的治疗-性治疗

“传统的”性功能障碍 - 男性性功能障碍的治疗

膨胀问题:
勃起缺乏 - 心理与行为疗法

3. 无苛求性交
约一周后，当男方已经克服了害怕失败的心理和已经对自己的性反应建立了信心的时候，性伴双方可以以从容不迫和无苛求的方式进入性交疗程。像先前的疗程一样，女方仍采取主动，而男方仰卧，保持被动状态。女方坐在男方的上面，用手淫爱抚方式抚摸男方，直到男方有了勃起。然后，女方降低身体，靠拢勃起的阴茎并将阴茎插入阴道。此后，女方保持静止不动一会儿之，让男方能够习惯阴茎进入阴道的感觉。数分钟后，女方开始慢慢地移动身体，以刺激阴茎并维持其勃起。在阴茎将要疲软的时候，女方只是从阴茎上抽离出来，并再一次用手淫爱抚方式刺激男方，直到阴茎再次勃起。不管怎样，只要女方避免做快速和强有力的移动，男方在通常情况下能够维持勃起。最后，男方可以由被动转为部分的主动。换句话说，女方保持在其性伴上方的体位，仍就将阴茎插入阴道，然而，过了一会儿之后，女方停止温柔的刺戳，并让男方在女方的体内上下移动。男女双方保持既定的疗程规则，不过不要打算达到性高潮。当性伴之一方确实来了性高潮时，应该把它看作一次意外的惊喜。一旦性伴双方学会了照这种方式放松身心，他们通常也会高兴地发现，只要其中一方愿意的话，阴茎是能够在阴道内维持勃起的。最终，随着他们的信心不断增强，他们将会尽量利用每一次的性交机会，而且也将随意地体验不同的性交体位。

The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions - Sex Therapy

The “Classic” Dysfunctions - The Treatment of Male Sexual Dysfunctions

Problems of Tumescence:
Lack of Erection - Psychological and Behavioral Therapy

3. Non-demanding Coitus
About a week later, when the man has overcome his fear of failure and has begun to have confidence in his responses, the couple may proceed to coitus in a deliberate and non-demanding fashion. Again, the woman takes the initiative. While the man remains passive lying on his back, she sits on top of him and masturbates him until he has an erection. She then lowers herself onto the erect penis and inserts it into her vagina. After the insertion, she remains still for a while, so that the man can get used to the feeling of being inside her. Within a few minutes, she begins to move slowly, thus stimulating the penis and keeping it erect. Should the erection be lost, she simply moves off the penis and masturbates it again until it is hard. Usually, however, the man will be able to keep his erection as long as the woman avoids quick and vigorous movements. Eventually, part of the initiative may be shifted to the man. That is to say, the woman remains in a position above her partner and she still inserts his penis into her vagina, but, after a while, she stops her gentle thrusting and allows him to move back and forth inside of her. Both partners stay under orders, however, not to aim for orgasm. When either of the partners does have an orgasm, it should be regarded as a pleasant surprise. Once a couple has learned to relax in this manner, they are usually also delighted to find that the penis can stay erect inside the vagina as long as either of them may wish. Finally, with their confidence strengthened, they are ready to make the most of each coitus and also to experiment freely with different coital positions.