性功能障碍的治疗-性治疗

“传统的”性功能障碍 - 男性性功能障碍的治疗

膨胀问题: 勃起缺乏 - 社会心理原因

双方关系问题
一位女子的男性性伴定期不能勃起，她一定也会受到消极的影响，所以必须在治疗中要改善双方的性关系。治疗的第一步通常由性伴性关系再教育(a couple's sexual re-education)所组成。例如，他们必须全然地懂得勃起是一种自然而然的生理反应。男人不能想要勃起就会勃起；他只能有产生勃起的可能性。不管用何种方法，如果在他及其性伴之间有相互的性反馈(sexual feedback-此处指双方相互刺激而相互达到性兴奋——译者注)，如果他身心放松得够充分，他才能够必然地产生勃起。另一方面，焦虑和忧虑可能会阻断他的性反应。简而言之，接受性伴性关系再教育的男女双方要认识到：“没有什么是可怕的，可怕的恰恰是可怕本身”。当然，也必须要讨论男子害怕失败的潜在原因，如果性伴一方或双方总体上对性行为有消极和不切实际的态度，就必须予以纠正。还必须要考虑调整性伴双方的非性方面的相互关系。归根结底，只有男女之间完全通人情的充分沟通才能够使他们通向相互幸福的彼岸。

The Treatment of Sexual Dysfunctions - Sex Therapy

The “Classic” Dysfunctions - The Treatment of Male Sexual Dysfunctions

Problems of Tumescence: Lack of Erection - Psychosocial Causes

A Relationship Problem
A woman whose male partner regularly fails to have an erection is bound to be negatively affected too, and it is therefore the whole sexual relationship that has to be treated. The first therapeutic step usually consists of a couple's sexual re-education. For example, they have to understand once and for all that an erection is an involuntary response. No man can will an erection; he can only allow it to happen. He can be certain, however, that it will happen if there is some sexual feedback between him and his partner, and if he is relaxed enough. Anxiety and apprehension, on the other hand, are likely to block his responses. In short, the couple learns that they have "nothing to fear but fear itself". Naturally, the underlying reasons for such fear have to be discussed also, and if one or both of the partners have negative and unrealistic attitudes toward sex in general, they must be corrected. In addition, the non-sexual aspects of the couple's relationship have to be considered. In the final analysis, it is the full human communication between man and woman that leads to their mutual happiness.