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性行为的基本类型
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异性手交
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玛丽娅·特蕾西娅(德语发音)
玛丽娅·特蕾萨(英语发音)
(1717 -1780)奥地利女大公、匈牙利和波西米亚女王，神圣罗马帝国皇后。
在她结婚的早期，她的宫廷御医(用拉丁语)向她的丈夫提出过如下衷告：“我得出结论认为，陛下在与皇后陛下性交之前，应该挑逗皇后陛下的阴户。
(Ceterum censeo vulvam Sanctissimae Majestatis ante coitum esse titillandam.)"
最终，特蕾西娅皇后生养了16个皇子。
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当男女性伴逐渐探寻彼此的性敏感区时，他们喜欢一次又一次地往复到最为敏感的部位——性器官。因而，十分自然而然地，他们可以感到他们正在实施手交行为。他们也会发现任何一方都可以采取主动，或还会发现他们能够非常娴熟地彼此同时进行手交。当然，对于后者，我们可以说成是相互手交刺激(mutual
masturbation)[1]。显而易见，想要对女方进行手交刺激(masturbate)[1]的男方应该询问女方喜欢哪里被触摸和怎样被触摸(几乎没有两个女人以完全相同的方式进行自娱。)。十分常见的是，女方会告诉男方阴蒂头对任何直接的刺激过于敏感，还会告诉男方抚摸阴蒂体两侧和小阴唇远不如想象的那么美好。此外，当女方变得性兴奋起来时，她的阴道就会自然而然地分泌润滑液，而男方随后就应该用手指把这些润滑液涂抹到阴蒂，以避免带给阴蒂可能的疼痛。他也应该谨记，随着不断增强的性兴奋，阴蒂会缩回到阴蒂包皮内，所以逐渐难以触及到。不过，只要男方遵照女方自己的指引，并且保持刺激阴户一般区域，男方通常能够让女方达到性高潮。当然，因为许多女性能够迅速接连地有数次性高潮，男方甚至可以继续爱抚女方的阴部，或转换到口交或生殖器性交。
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Maria Theresia
(German)Maria
Theresa
(English)
(1717 -1780)
Archduchess of Austria, Queen of Hungary and Bohemia, Empress of the
Holy Roman Empire.
Early in her marriage, her court physician gave this advice to her husband (in Latin):
“Ceterum censeo vulvam Sanctissimae Majestatis ante coitum esse titillandam"
(I conclude that the vulva of her Holiest Majesty should be titillated before coitus). Eventually, she gave birth
to 16 children.
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As the partners gently explore each other's erogenous zones, they are likely to return again and again to those that are the most sensitive - the sex organs. Thus, very naturally, they may find themselves engaging in manual intercourse. They may also discover that either of them can take the initiative, or that they can very well act simultaneously. In this latter case, one may, of course, speak of mutual masturbation. Obviously, a man who wants to masturbate a woman should ask her where and how she likes to be touched. (Hardly any two women masturbate in quite the same way.) Most often he will be told that the glans of the clitoris is too sensitive for any direct stimulation, and that it is far better to stroke the side of the clitoral shaft and the minor lips (labia minora). Furthermore, as the woman becomes sexually excited, her vagina begins to lubricate naturally, and the man should then use his fingers to spread this lubrication to the clitoris in order to avoid possible irritation. He should also remember that, with mounting excitement, the clitoris withdraws under its hood or foreskin and therefore becomes inaccessible. However, as long as he follows the woman's own instructions and keeps stimulating the general area of the vulva, he can usually bring her to orgasm. Indeed, since many women are capable of several orgasms in quick succession, he may even continue his caresses or switch to oral or genital intercourse. |
